msb12 | December 27th, 2008
What is the most important aspect of Self Defense?
I like to ask this question to Newbie’s attending group courses. The answers differ greatly from one person to the next, there is no one correct answer but what is important to hear is what’s important to that person at that particular point in time. The answers are relative as each person’s circumstances are very unique. What is important to one person is not always apparent to another person until they hear someone else’s story. Bringing this question out within a group always highlights many different and very valid points. It also gives us a chance to explain some of the pros and cons of the answers.
Be Aware of your Surroundings is a very common answer. To expand on that point, it is important to know where you are and where you’re going. Knowing any areas that should be avoided can prevent getting into trouble in the first place. Also being aware that muggings, rapes, attacks and so on do actually happen is important, people who are switched off and unaware become ideal targets.
Attack the Groin is often shouted out. The groin can be a very effective target; however it can only really be accessed successfully or effectively during a very close quarter fight. To try and access the groin from a normal punching and kicking distance is often ineffective. The body is equipped with lightening fast instinctive reactions to protect valuable organs such as the testicles and eyes. Close quarter strikes that come from out of view would be far more effective and much more likely to reach the intended target. Learn how to strike in these areas and practice striking. Use a groin Protector and Headgear complete with a visor in order to practice at a realistic speed, safely.
Run Away - is a common answer and is a very viable tactic but to expand on that point, if you are on your own and there are multiple attackers or an attacker carrying a weapon the running would be a sensible option. However, it is not always a possibility. Maybe you are simply not fit enough to run more than a few yards without getting winded or maybe you have young children with you. This could be one reason to stay n top of your personal fitness.
Avoid getting into trouble in the First Place - Avoidance is certainly a recommended practice, increasing your awareness through reading and research will increase your general Self Defense knowledge and help avoid situations before they happen. Maybe you will simply learn from the misfortunes of other people, maybe you will learn how people have managed to fight their way out of a situation. Maybe for example, its as simple as not walking down a dark alley at night which is obvious to most people. However, the downside on this point is that a situation may come along that was impossible to avoid.
Avoid, Escape and attack should be your options and in that order.
Stay in Groups - If you are out and about, there is something to be said for strength in numbers, as a group, you are far less likely to be the target of many types of attacker. Seeing friends home right to the point of getting into their home is very good practice.
All of the above are very good and very valid points but there are some other points to remember that people rarely bring up and we consider to be very important:
Have a Plan - Go through as many scenarios in your mind as you can possibly think of and figure out what you would do in a particular situation. This helps to avoid panic as you have a good idea of what you should do in a particular situation. When considering your options, keep in mind, avoid, escape and attack.
Know Your Limits - How far would you go in order to protect yourself? Could you stick your finger deep into someone’s eye if that’s what it required to save yourself? Could your pull chunks of hair out, tear an ear away from the head, fish hook a hole from the mouth through the cheek? Know what your own personal limit is. Many people find it hard to imagine carrying out such actions but any parent will know that if it was their kids that needs protecting then they would certainly do whatever they have to.
Finding Your Inner Strength - What is it that would make you get home tonight? Friends, Family, Pets, Your Home? Are you going to let your family become Fatherless, Motherless, Daughterless, Sonless, Husbandless, Wifeless, whatever it is? Absolutely not, this piece of scum standing in front of you, is not going to deny you and your family the right to be together -
YOU ARE GOING HOME AND YOU WILL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET THERE
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